An opening line that invites a story

Try “What song have you played twice this week?” It gives the other person something small to remember and an easy way to answer.

Give your own answer, too.

If they name a song, ask where they first heard it. Then share one of yours. A conversation feels easier when both people get to tell a little story.

Leave room for a pause.

On audio, wait a beat before filling the silence. If they prefer typing, save your question for a text match. You can always end a conversation that feels uncomfortable.

Questions to ask a stranger

Choose a question that is small enough to answer without sharing private information. You could ask about a song they have enjoyed, a meal they would make again, or a place they would like to visit for an afternoon.

Conversation starters for voice chat

Say your question clearly, then give the other person time to answer. If the connection is quiet, share a short answer of your own. A voice chat is easier to follow when each person has a turn, especially if either person is speaking a second language.

If you prefer typing first, the text, voice and video guide explains the choices before matching.